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This isn't a tool that will tell you what to do. It's a structured way to get honest with yourself about where you are — emotionally, financially, and practically — before you make one of the biggest decisions of your life.
There is no right answer here. Take it at your own pace.
Safety check
Before we begin — are you currently in a situation where you feel physically unsafe, or where you're concerned your partner may harm you if they found out you were thinking about this?
Some people find that the period of considering divorce is actually the most dangerous time in their relationship. There is no wrong answer here.