Breaking Upward helps you get clear on what matters, understand what your agreement actually says, and catch what's been left out — whether you're still deciding or already moving forward.
Not legal advice. Built to help you ask better questions.
Before you decide
Not sure yet? Get clarity on where you are — emotionally, financially, and practically — before you decide anything.
Priority intake
An adaptive questionnaire that surfaces what matters for your specific situation — children, career gaps, retirement, safety, and more.
Clause translator
Paste any legal clause and get plain-English explanation, key risks, and questions to ask your attorney. No legal jargon.
Triage checklist
A prioritized action checklist for documents, finances, housing logistics, and emotional well-being — so you know what to tackle first.
Agreement screening
Screen a draft agreement against your priorities. Flag omissions and red flags before you sign.
Built with care
Your data is never sold or shared. Session-only mode available for sensitive situations.
This tool supports your attorney relationship — it doesn't replace it.
Designed for the emotional reality of divorce, not just the legal one.