- ✓Before You Decide — get honest with yourself before you file (free)
- ✓Divorce triage checklist — know what to tackle first (free)
- ✓Clause translator — understand what your agreement actually says (first use free)
Not legal advice. Built to help you ask better questions.
Before you decide
Not sure yet? Get clarity on where you are — emotionally, financially, and practically — before you decide anything.
Free
Start here →Triage checklist
A prioritized action checklist for documents, finances, housing logistics, and emotional well-being — so you know what to tackle first.
Free
Open checklist →Clause translator
Paste any legal clause and get plain-English explanation, key risks, and questions to ask your attorney. No legal jargon.
First clause free · See pricing below
Try translator →Priority intake
An adaptive questionnaire that surfaces what matters for your specific situation — children, career gaps, retirement, safety, and more.
Preview free · Full access from $19
Start intake →Child Support: Long Term Calculator
Considering a child support number and not sure what it really costs — or contributes — over time? See the long view before you sign.
1 use with Starter · 10 with Full Access
Open the calculator →Let it out
A primal scream into a void, instead of a fight with your ex. Vent freely — someone witnesses it, nothing is ever stored.
2 free a day · more with a plan
Let it out →Need a lighter moment?
When the paperwork is heavy and your lawyer isn't picking up. Ask the ball. It knows things.
Free · No legal basis whatsoever
Ask the ball →Agreement screening
Screen a draft agreement against your priorities. Flag omissions and red flags before you sign.
Included with Full Access
Notify me when available →Simple pricing. No surprises.
One-time payment. No subscription. No expiration.
You'll sign in first, then check out securely. Access unlocks on your account automatically.
Built with care
Your data is never sold or shared. Session-only mode available for sensitive situations.
This tool supports your attorney relationship — it doesn't replace it.
Designed for the emotional reality of divorce, not just the legal one.
Breaking Upward helps you get clear on what matters, understand what your agreement actually says, and catch what's been left out.